On Making the First Step
Making that first step is what anchored you into your new reality going forward. It’s what helps you move from the areas that feel stagnant, slow, or heavy, into a you-niverse where who you are has space to grow into who you have been.
Who you currently are isn’t the problem. It never has been, and it never will be. Let’s rearrange the word 'healing' into a constant, growing, continuous awareness that there will always be a new version of you guiding you to a path where you are living your best and most bright life. And that journey is going to continue on even long after you are done living in your body.
This is why feeling stuck or stagnant is a 'safe zone of comfort' that you are staying in. It’s not about becoming angry at this part of yourself, but about recognizing that moving forward in life is also about leaving behind the pieces of you that have kept you safe for all these years. They aren’t the villains of your story, but parts of you that are actually helping direct you into your new self, with all the things you want—once you finally make that first step.
And after you make that first step, it’s then about BECOMING ready for the next step.
It’s easy, and it’s a journey that only you can make. Allowing it to be easier on every next step is where the power as a creator comes in. Unlocking your ability to play brings in your inner child, who will show you very easily where to point the direct arrow in your life. Even if it doesn’t 'look' like what your end goal is.
I promise you, that first step is all that ever matters. Because with that first step, the whole image of your life gets to grow and evolve with you. Not against you, as you may believe because you have been taught that life is hard, or that you need to work harder to get what you want. I’m here to break apart that concept and support you in regaining the nutrients you need to more easily make that first step, so you gain the muscles for the next.
As a Healer, this is what I’m an expert at. I’m able to tune into your soul, notice the radio frequency that's singing out of you, and support you in turning the dials yourself so you can follow your own signals. You haven’t been wrong. You haven’t done anything wrong. You have just been conditioned to believe you need someone outside of you to confirm your direction.
I’m not showing you where to go. I’m highlighting everything you are already telling me, reflecting it back so you can see it clearly, and highlighting the most creative path for you to go down. I don’t take the first step for you; I support you in making it clear, showing you where the nourishment is, and holding you accountable to everything you are already telling me. That’s what I 'do' as a healer.
It’s easy, but just as anything, it requires practice, dedication, and a great amount of love.
So for anyone out there that has been feeling stuck—more importantly, stagnant—and are ready to move forward: you are free to set up a call with me. We will anchor into what’s currently moving in your life so we can locate what moving forward feels like in your body. It’s going to feel different for every single person. Exciting!
For those of you who aren’t quite ready yet because it feels like too much of a commitment, I highly recommend joining my community where I send you creative prompts. Being in an active drawing practice supports you in developing the internal skills you need to move forward. You can practice your creative abilities to SEE more within you and on the page. I guarantee you, whatever comes through there is going to support you when you are ready to move.
Where you are is completely okay. You, your creative skills, and your body will let you know when you're ready. I’ll be here when you are.
Love you!
